
Lent in 2025 begins on Ash Wednesday, March 5 and ends on
Holy Thursday, April 17. This period covers 40 days of prayer,
fasting, and reflection, excluding Sundays.
(Except for three Year A Sundays that some
Parishes may require.)
This page is updated weekly with brief
Reflections and Provisions by Elaine Ireland, Author of our
Come and See page, for each day of the
Lenten season.
Ash
Wednesday, March 5: “Rend your hearts, not your garments” (Jl 2:12-18).
Kriah, Hebrew for “tearing,” is the ancient ritual of tearing one’s
garments to show grief. It is first recorded in Genesis when Jacob (Israel)
tears his clothes upon hearing of Joseph’s assumed death (37:34). It is used as
a sign of grief, a reaction to blasphemy, atonement for sin, or as a sign of
rejection of another. Modern Jews still pin a small piece of torn fabric to
their clothes when grieving a loved one; some still tear their clothes but do so
while standing as a sign of strength and trust in God. God asks us here to rend
our hearts but is not asking us to take on more pain. Instead, rending our
hearts is about opening ourselves up to God’s grace and mercy.
Provision: PRAY to rend your heart this Lent. This is something we don’t
like to do. We don’t want to be vulnerable, especially now when people in power
are preying on those who are seen as weak. Consider though, these words from
Oscar Wilde’s The Ballad of Reading Gaol: “And every human heart that breaks, in
prison-cell or yard ▪ Is as that broken box that gave its treasure to the Lord ▪
And filled the unclean leper's house with the scent of costliest nard. ▪▪ Ah!
Happy they whose hearts can break and peace of pardon win! ▪ How else may man
make straight his plan and cleanse his soul from sin? ▪ How else but through
a broken heart may Lord Christ enter in? ▪ Allow the Lord Christ to
enter in.
Thursday, March 6: “Choose life, then…by loving the LORD, your God, heeding
his voice, and holding fast to him”
(Dt 30:15-20).
“Holding fast” to something suggests an anxious or important situation. (I
remember fishing with my dad. He would say, “hold fast” to the fishing rod! I
don’t recall ever losing one, but that might have more to do with me not hooking
many fish!) In Sanskrit, “satyagraha,” a word coined by Gandhi for his peaceful
resistance movement, translates loosely into insistence on or holding firmly to
TRUTH. I think this is what Moses says to the Israelites. Hold fast to your
faith, to God’s commandments. It was essential to their happiness; it is
essential to ours. But we need not do so with anxiety. Although at times, we
might feel we are holding onto God for dear life, it is in the letting go of our
dear life (both metaphorically and someday, literally) we can experience the
peace and happiness found in heeding God’s voice.
Provision: Holding FAST to Faith. Ok, so it’s not the same definition of
“fast” …or then again, maybe it is. In the gospel, Jesus talks about losing our
lives (or souls, in Greek) so as to save ourselves. We fast from relying solely
on ourselves and our own will. We deny ourselves, accept what is given to us
each day, and follow Jesus in his path of peaceful resistance. Hold fast to
faith today, and fast from following the typical path of least resistance.
Friday, March 7: “Is not this the fast I choose—to unlock the shackles of
wickedness, and loosen the bonds of the yoke, to set the downtrodden
free?...Yes, to offer your bread to the hungry and bring the wretched poor into
your house…and [your fellow human being] do not ignore” (Is 58:1-9, Hebrew
translation).
“These lines against social injustice may reflect…the dire state of Judahite
society in the early fifth century, B.C. E... [but] exploitation of the poor and
indifference to suffering are prevalent in virtually all societies, including
affluent twenty-first century America. That is precisely what imparts a sense of
timeless relevance to this prophecy” (The Hebrew Bible, Vol 2, by Robert
Alter, pp.816-817).
Provision: PRAY with the Book of Isaiah. It’s a lot to read. Sixty-six
chapters, so two a day would take you almost to Holy Week. There is some
whiplash involved, so quickly does the prophet move from the people’s abject
sinfulness to God’s unconditional love. Read it reflectively, not as history,
but as how it applies to us today.
Saturday, March 8: “Repairer of the breach,” they shall call you,
"restorer of ruined homesteads” (Is 58:9-14).
I can’t think of another descriptor that we would want to strive for than
“repairer of the breach.” But what is the breach to which Isaiah refers? Given
the context, I can see the argument that the breach is between the people and
God, but I can also see that it could as easily be the breach within the
community. When the people extend help to their neighbors in need, they mend the
breach with God.
Provision: ACT to repair and restore. One of the challenges of repairing
breaches, building bridges, and restoring homesteads is you need two sides to
work together. Often, there can be more than two sides which really complicates
things, and these varying sides can be at odds. This happens between nations and
within communities and families. Identify a breach that is causing you pain or a
ruined “homestead” that might be rebuilt. See if you can FAST from any
resentment or anger you feel. PRAY for courage. GIVE it a go and ACT. Take the
first step to extend a hand and begin the work. (As I write this, we pray for
Pope Francis and his full recovery. May God grant him strength and healing.)

Monday, March
10: "You shall not steal… lie… curse the deaf or put a stumbling block in
front of the blind. You shall not act dishonestly in rendering judgment…nor
shall you stand by idly when your neighbor's life is at stake” (Lv 19:1-2,
11-18). When the Son of Man comes in his glory, he will sit upon his glorious
throne, and all the nations will be assembled before him (Mt 25:31-46).
Today’s missive from Leviticus lists things we, as individuals, “shall not” do.
In the gospel, we hear about the judgement of the “nations.” What do you think
this means? That governments and leaders of nations will be judged, but those
under their rule won’t be? Somehow, I don’t think that’s it. (So, if we are part
of a “sheep nation,” we won’t benefit from their largesse!?) One way to look at
these two passages is to contrast the difference between personal sin and
societal sin.
Provision: ACT as if your life depended on it. We all get the idea of
personal sin, but how do you define societal sin? Jesus’ list seems to be about
charitable works, but that’s a narrow reading of this text. Societal sin
includes policies and practices that exclude others from God’s bounty, that
bring about the need for charitable works: racism, bigotry, “deference to the
mighty” (as we hear in Leviticus), injustice, denying people a place at the
table, policies that demonize the stranger or ignore care for the earth. Spend
time reflecting on societal sin, and how your actions and inaction impact the
greater good. “Your life and my life flow into each other as wave flows into
wave, and unless there is peace and joy and freedom for you, there can be no
real peace or joy or freedom for me” (Frederick Buechner).
Tuesday, March
11: “The LORD confronts the evildoers, to destroy remembrance of them
from the earth” (Ps 34).
In Hebrew, that last phrase is “to cut off from the earth their names.” I
understand what the psalmist is saying here: evil will be forgotten in the face
of good. But for me, there’s a huge caveat, expressed best by George Santayana’s
most famous quote: “Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to
repeat it.” In the US and some European countries, there is a rise in
“neo-Nazism.” Let’s get one thing straight: there’s nothing “neo” about it, and
world leaders who, no matter how much they deny it, are, by their words,
actions, and policies, supporting this movement. My parents’ generation, those
who lived through WWII, and, in my father’s case, fought against the scourge of
Nazism, have moved on to their reward, and it is up to my generation to honor
them by making sure the coming generations never forget. Humanity is nowhere
near being ready to dismiss the presence of evil. It is front and center right
now.
Provision: FAST from turning away. “You may choose to look the other
way, but you can never say again that you didn’t know” (William Wilberforce,
British slavery abolitionist). Oh, I know how easy it is to say, “this too will
pass, we’ve survived this before” or “there’s nothing I can do” or “someone else
will deal with it.” But what is happening now is an affront to all those with a
moral conscience, regardless of political affiliation. I encourage you to make
your voice heard repeatedly to your elected leaders. Tell them there is no place
for hatred and bigotry in our world.
Wednesday, March
12: “Everyone shall turn back from their evil way and from the outrage to
which they hold fast” (Jon 3:1-10, Hebrew). “This generation is an evil
generation” (Lk 11:29-32).
Outrage: as a noun it could be both a horrible, violent act, or the reaction to
a horrible, violent act. In the NABRE translation, I guess it’s the former: the
violence the Ninevites “had in hand.” But we know an outrageous act can easily
spark an outrageous and equally violent response. Violence begets violence,
which is why Jesus’ words to his evil generation can likely be said to all
generations. How do we work to turn back from our evil ways, from violence?
Provision: ACT nonviolently. I am a bit of a hothead. I’ve calmed down
some in these, my later years, but my outrage can be sparked quickly. What’s
interesting about our current political climate is that there are a lot of
people who are outraged, but we are not all outraged about the same things. Some
are outraged by elitism (I’m not saying, “so called,” because I think this is
grounded in reality). Others, like me, are outraged by the current political
situation and the leaders in my country. They have deceived the very people to
whom they have promised greatness (go back to Sunday’s reflection) and are
destroying democracy to feed their own egos and bank accounts. Considering
Jesus’ comment about an evil generation, let’s go back to Monday’s reflection as
well. Is Jesus talking just to the leaders or to all of us? How can we calm and
channel our outrage into nonviolent and compassionate ways to “repair the
breach?”
Thursday, March
13: “Help me, who am alone and have no help but you, for I am taking my life
in my hand”
(Est C:12, 14-16, 23-25).
Esther is scared. She is taking a big risk. Her husband, the king, is a powerful
and mercurial dude (although we hear God changed his anger to gentleness), but
she doesn’t know that walking into his throne room. She prays fervently to God
to give her courage to speak truth and goodness to treachery and evil.
Provision: PRAY for courage. It takes courage to speak out against evil.
For Esther, it could have meant death; for Jesus, it did (along with MLK,
Gandhi, recent activists in Russia, and I’m sure many other saints around the
world). For me, it is awful to see the cuts to USAID given the number of good
people who have put their own lives at risk over the years to fight illness and
evil around the world. It takes courage for us to speak out today. The threat of
violence and slander is very real. Not all of us are called to take a public
stand, but that doesn’t mean we don’t speak out, nonviolently, to call out evil
we see. This is a time, folks, when the rubber of our faith meets the road,
and that means friction; friction causes heat. Pray today for the courage to
endure the heat, to take a nonviolent stand within your community.
Friday, March
14: “If the wicked one turns away from all the sins he committed, if he…
does what is right and just, he shall surely live, he shall not die. …And if the
virtuous one turns from the path of virtue to do evil, the same kind of
abominable things that the wicked one does… none of his virtuous deeds shall be
remembered” (Ez 18:21-28).
An important thing to remember here: God sees and knows the disposition of our
hearts. This is not about “thou shalt not” sins of commission. The virtuous
person who appears to do nothing wrong may have a cold, hardened, judgmental
heart. The one deemed as wicked because of their actions may have a warm,
loving, merciful heart. (I have witnessed many times the compassion and love of
those that society looks down upon for their sins.) You can’t fool God. “You
are the ones who are offering justifications of yourselves before men, but God
knows your hearts; because that which is lofty among men is an abomination
before God” (Lk 16:15).
Provision: FAST from judgment. These words of Jesus hit me: “that
which is lofty among men is an abomination before God.” I know people who
judge others favorably based on the amount of money or power they make or have
accrued. But then, I need to look at how I judge people who judge people that
way! We all judge others. It’s human nature. Heck, Jesus did, but he judged
based on the actions rather than on the person (an important distinction; he saw
everyone as a child of God). But today, let’s each of us look at the criteria
with which we judge. How do these standards align with how we imagine God
judges? "Do not pay too much attention to fame, power, or money. Someday, you
will meet a person who cares for none of these, and then you will know how
really poor you are” (Rudyard Kipling).
Saturday, March
15: “Today, I am making this agreement with the LORD: God will be my God,
and I am to walk in God’s ways” (Dt 26:16-19, adapted).
Provision: GIVE this PRAYer a try! (I didn’t have any “GIVES” this week,
so we will go with this one!) Each morning, imagine you are making an agreement
with God. What are you agreeing to? Where might you be challenged to keep this
agreement (say, you know you will encounter “this person” or “that situation”
today)? And do this with the knowledge that God keeps God’s commitment. God will
never abandon the promises to us! Yes, we might need to “repair a breach” or two
this evening, but God awaits our return!
Monday, March 17: "Stop judging and you
will not be judged. Stop condemning and you will not be condemned …For the
measure with which you measure will in return be measured out to you"
(Lk 6:36-38).
I like Luke’s Gospel. He says things plainly and gets to the point. These words
today cause me to reflect on righteous anger and calling out hypocrisy and evil
that we talked about yesterday. Now Jesus does this all the time—just look at
Matthew 23 which we read from tomorrow to see how Jesus gets to the point about
what he thinks of the elders’ hypocrisy! (A skeptic might say Jesus did indeed
get measured out to him what he measured to others!) But unlike Jesus, and like
the elders, I am a hypocrite. I preach but do not always practice. Who am I to
call out others when I, like Isaiah, am a person of unclean lips as well?
Provision: PRAY for the Spirit’s guidance. When I complain about things I
see as wrong in our world, or when I call out lies from our leaders, it tends to
devolve into a personal attack. And while much of what is in Matthew 23 does
sound like a personal attack on the elders, Jesus is also willing to engage
them. He condemns their actions, but not who they are. Even though we humans are
not saints and prophets (but remember, saints and prophets didn’t start that
way), God still calls us to speak up, to act. Pray for guidance. Don’t use human
weakness as an excuse for silence in the face of lies.
Tuesday, March 18: "[The scribes and the
Pharisees’] works are performed to be seen. They widen their phylacteries and
lengthen their tassels. They love places of honor at banquets, seats of honor in
synagogues” (Mt 23:1-12).
A phylactery is a small leather box containing Jewish scripture. Orthodox Jewish
men wear them on their foreheads as a symbol of keeping God’s word “top of
mind.” Ostensibly, the wider the phylactery, the more pious the wearer, which in
some cases may be very true. Jesus takes issue, though, with those who make a
show of holiness but lack compassion in their hearts.
What would be the Christian equivalent today? In the Roman church, some like
honoring the King with the pageantry of lace trains and tall miters. I cannot
pretend to judge their hearts but also can’t help imagining Jesus running away
as he did in John 6:15, not wanting to be made king! Those who preach the
prosperity gospel could be examples too. Again, I don’t begrudge them their
riches, if their God is still God, and they work for justice and give generously
from their bounty. And yes, I must look each day at where I have made a show of
something for my own ego and not for God.
Provision: ACT for the greater glory of God. Remember Jesus’ words on Ash
Wednesday. Do good things for God that only God knows about. Don’t worry about
who sees them or who gets the credit. Today, do something good in secret for
someone or for some cause. God sees what you do and will reward you.
Wednesday, March 19: “For this reason, it
depends on faith, so that it may be a gift” (Rom 4:13, 16-18, 22). When Joseph
awoke, he did as the angel had commanded him and took his wife into his home"
(Mt 1:16, 18-21, 24).
Today, in the Catholic and some Protestant denominations, we celebrate the
person and the faith of St. Joseph. We talked yesterday about acting quietly for
the greater glory of God, and indeed, Joseph did just that. And, as we talked
about Sunday, he surely did not take the easy road, one that was well within the
law for him to do. But as we hear in Paul’s letter to the Romans, faith is not
about the law. It is a gift given freely to us by God.
Provision: PRAY for the faith of Joseph. Joseph, like Mary, like the
saints and the prophets on Monday, were human beings. The gift of faith they
received is a gift available to each of us as well. If you are a person of
faith, pray to St. Joseph for the courage to open that gift even further, aware
that it may not lead you on the easiest of paths. If faith is still a concept
for you or a gift you’ve not yet opened, pray that, like Joseph, you will listen
closely for God’s call.
Thursday, March 20: “I am the Lord who
probes the heart, testing the conscience and allotting to humans according to
their ways, according to the fruit of their deeds” (Jer 17:5-10, Hebrew).
“Remember that you received what was good… while Lazarus likewise received what
was bad; but now he is comforted, whereas you are tormented” (Lk 16:19-31).
The gospel today is the story of Lazarus and the rich man. For those of us
blessed with plenty, it’s a “squirm in your seat” reading. But I take some
solace in knowing God sees my heart. I believe I have good intentions, but we
all know where that can lead: “The road to hell is paved with good intentions.”
It is the “fruit of my deeds,” “the measure with which I measure” that I will
face in my heart and my conscience, for comfort or for torment, at the end of my
earthly days.
Provision: GIVE from your heart. The world would be a far better place if
people gave from their need to give, or even from their hope for personal
salvation. But true giving comes from a loving heart. It is not the amount of
money we give or the time we spend. If the source of our giving is an open and
compassionate heart, the fruits of our deeds will be sweet and nourishing. Take
time to examine today why you give. Is it out of obligation or guilt? See if you
can soften your heart by looking into the eyes of those to whom you give. The
fruit of that deed will be sweet for you, too.
Friday, March 21: Israel loved Joseph best
of all his sons … When his brothers saw that their father loved him best … they
hated him so much that they would not even greet him (Gn 37:3-4). “This is the
heir. Come, let us kill him and acquire his inheritance.” They seized him, threw
him out of the vineyard, and killed him (Mt 21:38-39).
These readings are uncomfortable. They are about egoism, envy, jealousy, and
revenge. Very human stories we see played out in the Bible many times. Stories
we see played out in today’s news. It’s amazing how some people don’t see the
parallels. In fact, even the word parallel doesn’t do it justice. I imagine the
ancients we read about in Scripture would be horrified to see what we do today;
it reminds me of what Jesus said a few weeks ago about the Queen of Sheba and
the Ninevites judging the people of his generation! How would his generation
look at us?!
Egoism: “It’s all about me. I am self-centered and uncaring.” Jealousy: “Don’t
you dare take away or threaten what’s mine. I am selfish and suspicious.” Envy:
“I covet what ‘they’ have. I am resentful, ungrateful, and scheming.” Revenge:
“I’m going to make sure the ‘other’ gets what’s coming to them. I am hateful and
unmerciful.” These are toxic emotions, sins that lead to terrible decisions,
terrible acts, and terrible lives.
Provision: PRAY for those whose hearts are hard. Especially for yourself
if you are in the grip of any of these painful emotions. Pay attention when
these feelings arise. They are insidious and can creep up on any one of us. Pray
too for God to soften the hearts of those in leadership positions whose fear,
insecurity, or evil intent lead them to make bad decisions that impact thousands
of lives.
Saturday, March 22: “Now the older son had
been out in the field…he heard the sound of music and dancing. He called one of
the servants [who] said to him, 'Your brother has returned, and your father has
slaughtered the fattened calf’ …
He became angry, and he refused to enter the house” (Lk 15:1-3, 11-32).
Speaking of toxic emotions, let’s go ahead and add bitterness to the list! It’s
one I’ve heard mentioned recently regarding US politics: people feeling
bitterness towards those whose votes have put our current situation into motion.
My bitterness is more towards leaders, on both sides of the aisle, who have
failed, and are failing to fight to keep our democracy intact. But as is the
case with the older son today, those who are bitter don’t get to feel joy.
Provision: FAST from bitterness. I’ve talked to several people who have
no sympathy for people who are suffering at the hands of the very leaders they
voted for. Bitterness will get us nowhere and will only serve to make things
worse. Spend time today ridding your heart of bitterness. Journal about how you
feel. Do this before you go out into the world to take action. Take time during
the day to make sure bitterness is not making a comeback.
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